Creating the reality you desire is a profound art. This technique is known as a manifestation and it consists of 3 major ingredients. The first part is the idea. You have to have a concept of what you really want. The trick I figured out is that this wish has to come directly from your heart. If it is just a desire which emerged from an imprint of your mind this technique will never work in a sustainable manner.
Most people have no clue what they want! They also tend to be fixed on symbols like: „I want to be a millionaire“ or „I want to drive a Ferrari“. In my opinion, it is much better to thrive for a certain quality in life than for a symbol. So I rather focus on freedom, diversity of uplifting experiences with like-minded individuals and a feeling of prosperity in material resources.
The second ingredient is to be patient. Depending on how fancy your goals are, it might take some time until the right circumstances are able to emerge. The best thing to do is to let go and focus on right here and right now.
The last major skill you need to create the reality you want is the ability to let go of the reality you have. That of course always includes people you love. This is the most demanding part and most seekers fail at this point.
In my current case this was also a very hard task, but in a way, life forced me to at least temporarily let go of my home with the people I love. It is a natural thing that moments come along where you have to quit your job, separate from a relationship or even circumstances kick in, which create a situation where everything that defined you as an individual has ripped apart, no matter how much effort you put into the idea of conserving the status quo. It is the point where your stage is cleansed to be reset.
So now I went to Medicine Hat in Canada to meet with a friend who had the same general concept of leaving the common trails of society behind to live a life in freedom – free of daily routines. His name is Jens and we know each other from our time as teenagers in our hometown Magdeburg.